Because you can't change anyone else.
And that's super scary.
Comfortably numb is sorta how it goes without scary change.
To change you have to connect.
Connect to yourself and others.
What can I learn about myself during this process of change?
Embrace the fear.
Give it a hug.
A hug that's just a tad too long.
Then let go.
Let the fear go.
Go on, git.
Now embrace the opportunity.
The opportunity to change.