When you're with someone.
In their presence.
Somebody you've been with a million times before.
You're with them fully.
Or your not.
If your not you can catch yourself.
Catch yourself wronging them.
Ask them to forgive you.
Then try again to be there fully with them.
Don't be guilty.
You just became more present than 99.99% of America.
In each other's presence.